By Holly Wittwer
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October 20, 2024
If you’ve ever wondered what your kid's social life would look like being homeschooled, you are not alone. There are many misconceptions around homeschooling, and socialization is at the top of that list. “How will your children make friends?” they ask. “How will having them home all the time prepare them for the REAL world?” and so on. Hi, my name is Kathy Hernandez. I am a homeschool mom of two beautiful kids, ages 8 and 10. Our family has homeschooled for almost 6 years in Las Vegas, and I am here to shed some light on the subject. Being a big advocate of homeschooling, I often find myself having conversations with curious strangers everywhere I go. Just the other day, for example, while getting groceries at Costco, the sample lady asked my children a very typical question from well-meaning adults: “How was your day at school?” My kids replied in a mellow tone, “Good. We’re homeschooled.” After a full day of fun, you’d think they would have more enthusiasm in their voices, but they didn’t. Regardless, it got a conversation started, and I’m all for it! One minute, we’re having a sample of chips and salsa, and the next, I’m sharing a list of homeschooling resources with her. “But what about socialization? Do they get to see other kids every day? My daughter is very social, and that’s my biggest concern,” she added, as I moved over to let the sample line flow. As I finished my sample and the last customer left, I was back at it. “How often your kids socialize and with whom is really up to you. My kiddos just spent 5 hours building Legos with our friends at Lego club. They get a challenge to build, sometimes working in teams, and then present their creations to the group. Once everyone is done, we all clean up, and they run off to play while the moms catch up over coffee. If you compare that to the recess/lunch breaks kids get in school, homeschooled kids are often interacting more in 1 or 2 play dates than most kids do all week at school,” I replied. “Oh wow, that sounds great. So, do you guys have to plan everything? How often do you meet?” she asked, intrigued. “Lego club is once a month,” I replied, “but we have events planned every week, like field trips to museums and local attractions, park days, sports days, co-op classes where parents take turns teaching different subjects, and structured sports like gymnastics, jiu-jitsu, and hockey. The library also has events every month, some specifically for homeschoolers. The options are endless.” I could see a look of excitement and relief on her face, but I knew my time was up when a new line started to form.